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I got email from a couple of East Coast friends saying Hollywood reigns there too. Any responses from the South, Midwest, etc??
cheers,
Laura
I don't think it's just Hollywood, after all we see TV and movies and ads all over the country! And I think both men and women prefer the attractive as hmcbride said.
Hi Helen,
I'd be interested to hear too. I suspect that there is a tendency like this everywhere, although it might be strongest near the Hollywood epicenter.
cheers,
Laura
I'd be interested to hear if this viewpoint is as prevalent outside California. On the West Coast, we are surrounded by an unusually high number of good looking people, particularly in LA/Hollywood area where I work. Would the same skewing be true in other areas of the country where most everyone is normal looking?
What I hate is the ageism and the anti-fat-ism that I run into. I have a thyroid condition and I have a very difficult time not gaining weight compared to normal people. But people act like I'm despicable because I'm on the heavy side. I still have brains and I can still be a good team member, if given a chance.
Hi Helen,
Yes, that is the tendency. I try to fight that in dealing with students but it's pretty difficult. It seems like most people don't even try. But I hate to think someone who, through no fault of their own, lacks beauty but still has brains and integrity will always struggle. The job description doesn't say, "looks good, has charm," but it might as well!
cheers,
Laura
B. It's not a secret that human beings prefer attractiveness. Even babies stare longer at symmetrical (i.e. beautiful) faces than unattractive ones from their earliest moments. It's basic biology. Why do you think pre-med students are encouraged to cultivate whatever looks they've got? No one trusts an ugly doctor...and the same holds true in science. If you have two candidates who are equally qualified, nice personality, why wouldn't you choose the one who dresses well and is attractive? This goes for men in industry as well. They dress just as well (or better) than the women and get those $100 haircuts too.
I have to pick B here. It matters sometimes, depending on who is doing the choosing. I try to ignore that when I suspect it but interfere to stop it if it happens right in my face.