Abstract
Social ties often seem symmetric, but they need not be1,2,3,4,5. For example, a person might know a stranger better than the stranger knows them. We explored whether people overlook these asymmetries and what consequences that might have for people’s perceptions and actions. Here we show that when people know more about others, they think others know more about them. Across nine laboratory experiments, when participants learned more about a stranger, they felt as if the stranger also knew them better, and they acted as if the stranger was more attuned to their actions. As a result, participants were more honest around known strangers. We tested this further with a field experiment in New York City, in which we provided residents with mundane information about neighbourhood police officers. We found that the intervention shifted residents’ perceptions of officers’ knowledge of illegal activity, and it may even have reduced crime. It appears that our sense of anonymity depends not only on what people know about us but also on what we know about them.
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Data availability
The Open Science Framework page for this project (https://osf.io/mkgwr/) includes all data from laboratory experiments and all data necessary to reproduce the results of the field experiment.
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The codes for running the laboratory experiments online and for analysing the data from the field experiment are available on the Open Science Framework (https://osf.io/mkgwr/).
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This research was supported by the National Institute of Justice (award number 2013-R2-CX-0006). We are grateful to the New York City Police Department, particularly T. Coffey and D. Williamson in the Office of Management Analysis and Planning. Points of view or opinions contained within this document are those of the authors and do not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the New York City Police Department. We also thank the New York City Housing Authority for their assistance with the field experiment. Throughout this project, ideas42 was an essential research partner. We are also grateful to H. Furstenberg-Beckman for thoughtful guidance; A. Alhadeff and W. Tucker for valuable assistance; Crime Lab New York for critical support in the planning and evaluation of the policing intervention, particularly R. Ander, M. Barron, A. Chalfin, K. Falco, V. Gilbert, D. Hafetz, B. Jakubowski, Z. Jelveh, K. Nguyen, L. Parker, J. Lerner, H. Golden, G. Stoddard and N. Weil; V. Nguyen for her support as a research assistant; and J. Ludwig, S. Mullainathan, A. Kumar, E. O’Brien and F. Goncalves for insightful feedback.
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Extended Data Fig. 1 Outreach cards.
A sample outreach card (front and back) used in the field intervention. Identifying information has been redacted.
Extended Data Fig. 2 Outreach letters.
A sample letter used in the field intervention. Identifying information has been redacted.
Extended Data Fig. 3 Distribution of point estimates for treatment effect.
As a robustness check, we conducted analyses for various radii ranging up to three blocks around developments: 65 ft., 100 ft., 150 ft., 200 ft., 250 ft., 300 ft., 400 ft., 500 ft., and 750 ft. And, for each radius, we conducted analyses for cumulative time intervals ranging from one month after the intervention (i.e., February 2018) to the first nine months after the intervention (i.e., February through October 2018). Varying both of these dimensions produced 81 sets of results, based on our primary specification applied to each radius and time interval (see Supplementary Information C.3). This figure shows the distribution of point estimates for the crime reductions across these analyses, along with an Epanechnikov kernel density function over the distribution. The red dot highlights where the 250-ft, 3-month result falls in the distribution, suggesting it is in line with the central estimates across all 81 analyses.
Extended Data Fig. 4 Heat map of P-values for treatment effect over time and distance.
As a robustness check, we conducted analyses for various radii ranging up to three blocks around developments: 65 ft., 100 ft., 150 ft., 200 ft., 250 ft., 300 ft., 400 ft., 500 ft., and 750 ft. And, for each radius, we conducted analyses for cumulative time intervals ranging from one month after the intervention (i.e., February 2018) to the first nine months after the intervention (i.e., February through October 2018). Varying both of these dimensions produced 81 sets of results. This figure shows a heat map of P-values across these 81 specifications, with the 250-ft, 3-month result outlined in blue. P-values are from two-tailed tests based on our primary specification applied to each radius and time interval (see Supplementary Information C.3).
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This file contains the following sections: A. Lab experiment methods, materials, and results; B. Field experiment methods and materials; C. Field experiment results, tables, and figures; D. Software Used; E. Supplementary references.
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Shah, A.K., LaForest, M. Knowledge about others reduces one’s own sense of anonymity. Nature 603, 297–301 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41586-022-04452-3
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